Comments on: I have been confused for seven months with my wife, and i know that I am at fault? http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault The Best In Telephone Credit Card Processing Sat, 11 Feb 2012 08:14:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: sisternvirginia http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault/comment-page-1#comment-1068 sisternvirginia Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:57:04 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault#comment-1068 If she files for divorce she'll get less money than you are giving her now. If she files for divorce she’ll get less money than you are giving her now.

]]> By: Margaret M http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault/comment-page-1#comment-1069 Margaret M Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:57:04 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault#comment-1069 I think that you did a wrong thing when you hit her, but if your honest in everything you wrote i think you have tried very hard to show her how stupid it was and to work on this marriage. Shes using you, if she files for a divorce then she will either have to get a job or work more hours. Maybe she cant support herself withour that $400 a week. I think that you need to tell her we work this out seriously or im filing a divorce, i wouldnt give her any more money either. I think that you did a wrong thing when you hit her, but if your honest in everything you wrote i think you have tried very hard to show her how stupid it was and to work on this marriage. Shes using you, if she files for a divorce then she will either have to get a job or work more hours. Maybe she cant support herself withour that $400 a week. I think that you need to tell her we work this out seriously or im filing a divorce, i wouldnt give her any more money either.

]]> By: adrian cosmo pat http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault/comment-page-1#comment-1070 adrian cosmo pat Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:57:04 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault#comment-1070 That's too bad that the situation is still escalating. I feel she's hanging onto you because you are helping her out financially. She wants the money without you being around. I think you should file for the divorce. It's apparently over and as long as she continues to say the things she is about you, your life will continually be in turmoil. You need to stay strong in your rehabilitation and go forward. Stay away from her and do legally what you should do. Good luck to you and I wish you a better life. That’s too bad that the situation is still escalating. I feel she’s hanging onto you because you are helping her out financially. She wants the money without you being around. I think you should file for the divorce. It’s apparently over and as long as she continues to say the things she is about you, your life will continually be in turmoil. You need to stay strong in your rehabilitation and go forward. Stay away from her and do legally what you should do. Good luck to you and I wish you a better life.

]]> By: JenJen http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault/comment-page-1#comment-1071 JenJen Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:57:04 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault#comment-1071 Look, it happened, you're getting help, you're on your way...she's going to accept your money and pray on your guilt for as long as you let her. She wasn't there for you when you lost your job-we've all been there lately. Sounds like you two need to go to a councilor and work this out, or you file for divorce. She's going to keep spending your hard earned money. You can recreate yourself in your community. Go to a different mass schedule, or another church. Get your life together and stop letting her remind you of your mistakes. She sounds like she is seriously pulling you down. That way you'll always be a disappointment like she's used to. $400 a week is very high-I'd let the courts, based on your income now, pick a fair amount. And no offense, but that's a really dumb reason to hit a woman. Any reason would be. Glad you're changing for the better. Look, it happened, you’re getting help, you’re on your way…she’s going to accept your money and pray on your guilt for as long as you let her. She wasn’t there for you when you lost your job-we’ve all been there lately. Sounds like you two need to go to a councilor and work this out, or you file for divorce. She’s going to keep spending your hard earned money. You can recreate yourself in your community. Go to a different mass schedule, or another church. Get your life together and stop letting her remind you of your mistakes. She sounds like she is seriously pulling you down. That way you’ll always be a disappointment like she’s used to. $400 a week is very high-I’d let the courts, based on your income now, pick a fair amount. And no offense, but that’s a really dumb reason to hit a woman. Any reason would be. Glad you’re changing for the better.

]]> By: Pass It On... http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault/comment-page-1#comment-1072 Pass It On... Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:57:04 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/i-have-been-confused-for-seven-months-with-my-wife-and-i-know-that-i-am-at-fault#comment-1072 This is what they call a 'circle jerk'. I think your wife is manipulating the system...and you. If she filed for divorce, it would be mandatory that a 'fair and equitable' agreement be made between the two of you. Basically...she wouldn't be able to call the shots anymore. You said yourself that when the money train stopped running, she changed. Up until then, she was violating her own restraining order as long as it suited her. Let this go. First of all...stop shelling out all this money and make her file a court order...trust me...she doesn't want to do this because she KNOWS she's getting something for nothing right now...and the court will be far less generous to her than you're being. Secondly...beat her at her own game, and file for divorce YOURSELF. This is no marriage anyway...it's just a succession of mind games and bullying. Maintain your sobriety for YOURSELF and YOUR life...not HER. This is what they call a ‘circle jerk’. I think your wife is manipulating the system…and you. If she filed for divorce, it would be mandatory that a ‘fair and equitable’ agreement be made between the two of you. Basically…she wouldn’t be able to call the shots anymore. You said yourself that when the money train stopped running, she changed. Up until then, she was violating her own restraining order as long as it suited her.

Let this go. First of all…stop shelling out all this money and make her file a court order…trust me…she doesn’t want to do this because she KNOWS she’s getting something for nothing right now…and the court will be far less generous to her than you’re being. Secondly…beat her at her own game, and file for divorce YOURSELF. This is no marriage anyway…it’s just a succession of mind games and bullying. Maintain your sobriety for YOURSELF and YOUR life…not HER.

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