Comments on: How do I handle this situation with my soon to be fiancee (read the details)? http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details The Best In Telephone Credit Card Processing Sat, 11 Feb 2012 08:10:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Marie :D http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details/comment-page-1#comment-1076 Marie :D Tue, 24 Nov 2009 08:34:17 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details#comment-1076 You know, this seems f*cked up. Your GF is using that guy. Ask yourself, Do you really want to be with that type of person? If she's with you she sould respect you and I think accepting gifts of that sort and keeping so much contact with some one else who gives her so much is suspicious. Why does he give her these things? Maybe it's true that things could be misinterpreted so why don't you talk to her. If it were me, I'm too proud and have too much dignity to accept things like that from someone who isn't even my partner. I suggest the best thing is to communicate your feelings to her about this situation. GOOD LUCK!!!! You know, this seems f*cked up. Your GF is using that guy.
Ask yourself, Do you really want to be with that type of person?
If she’s with you she sould respect you and I think accepting gifts of that sort and keeping so much contact with some one else who gives her so much is suspicious. Why does he give her these things? Maybe it’s true that things could be misinterpreted so why don’t you talk to her.
If it were me, I’m too proud and have too much dignity to accept things like that from someone who isn’t even my partner.

I suggest the best thing is to communicate your feelings to her about this situation.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

]]> By: Liz http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details/comment-page-1#comment-1077 Liz Tue, 24 Nov 2009 08:34:17 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details#comment-1077 Ummm.....reconsider marrying a cheater? D'uh! Ummm…..reconsider marrying a cheater? D’uh!

]]> By: jenleeflem http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details/comment-page-1#comment-1078 jenleeflem Tue, 24 Nov 2009 08:34:17 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details#comment-1078 I would tell her exactly how you feel. If she doesn't stop communicating with him or spending his money, I definitely wouldn't ask her to marry you. I hate to say it, but she is getting something from him that she isn't getting from you. Whether it is the attention or the money or what, she enjoys her relationship with him. If you guys are serious enough that you are planning on asking her to marry you and she still hasn't quit her stuff with this other guy, I wonder if she is really that serious about you. As far as what her relationship with the ex-boss was in the past, if she is willing to sleep with a Married man, what's to say that she wouldn't be willing to sleep with him even after she is married? She doesn't seem to have any boundaries when it comes to the whole marriage thing, so I would definitely question that. But talk to her. I wouldn't say to give her an ultimatum just yet, but I wouldn't ask her to marry you until she has cut off all communication with this guy. Good luck I would tell her exactly how you feel. If she doesn’t stop communicating with him or spending his money, I definitely wouldn’t ask her to marry you. I hate to say it, but she is getting something from him that she isn’t getting from you. Whether it is the attention or the money or what, she enjoys her relationship with him. If you guys are serious enough that you are planning on asking her to marry you and she still hasn’t quit her stuff with this other guy, I wonder if she is really that serious about you.

As far as what her relationship with the ex-boss was in the past, if she is willing to sleep with a Married man, what’s to say that she wouldn’t be willing to sleep with him even after she is married? She doesn’t seem to have any boundaries when it comes to the whole marriage thing, so I would definitely question that.

But talk to her. I wouldn’t say to give her an ultimatum just yet, but I wouldn’t ask her to marry you until she has cut off all communication with this guy.

Good luck

]]> By: Sherry http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details/comment-page-1#comment-1079 Sherry Tue, 24 Nov 2009 08:34:17 +0000 http://www.mobilemerchantaccount.net/how-do-i-handle-this-situation-with-my-soon-to-be-fiancee-read-the-details#comment-1079 Sadly, you are not first in her life. And if you create a future with her, someone will always come along that has something she wants more. You do not want someone that can be bought with a price, you simply want someone that is worthy of the trust you place in them. Think about it, she came between a man and his wife, she will do the same again, because she never has established principles against it. You plan in advance how you will act when temptation comes your way. If you tell yourself if it wrong to spend money that belongs to another woman and children, then you will say no to the attention this unfaithful husband is offering. Hold out for someone that values you and treats you like you want to treat them. You never have to lower your standards to find love. It will search you out. Sadly, you are not first in her life. And if you create a future with her, someone will always come along that has something she wants more. You do not want someone that can be bought with a price, you simply want someone that is worthy of the trust you place in them. Think about it, she came between a man and his wife, she will do the same again, because she never has established principles against it. You plan in advance how you will act when temptation comes your way. If you tell yourself if it wrong to spend money that belongs to another woman and children, then you will say no to the attention this unfaithful husband is offering. Hold out for someone that values you and treats you like you want to treat them. You never have to lower your standards to find love. It will search you out.

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